An author has encouraged men to reflect on what they contribute to relationships rather than directing that question solely at women.
Henry Onyema specifically addressed men who struggle with s*xual self-control.
In a Facebook post, he stated, “I observe many men and conclude that they are merely escorts to real men, mistakes in manhood.
“Do you think you’re a man just because you lack s*xual self-control and pursue any woman in a skirt? Just because you have a pen!s doesn’t make you a man.
“What value do you add to the table? Stop asking women that question; ask yourself instead. Who would actually want you in her life?”